flip side and going green

I’m back!!

Thanksgiving was okay. We spent the entire day with Lois’ family. My family gets us for Christmas this year! It was truly an Italian holiday as we started eating at 1 pm with apps, traditional dinner (of 15 items) at 4:00, dessert at 5:30 pm and “supper” of stuffed shells and meatballs at 8 pm. Talk about a feeding frenzy.  

Sunday through Tuesday I was in New York City!

It’s funny after I spent 3 years away from Lois 5 nights a week that I really missed her and the boy so much for the 2 whole nights I was gone.

NYC was kudos of fun and I’m actually tired. Not much sleep was had.

Sunday started off on a bad note with a dead car battery in Lois’ car. My co-worker was late meeting up with us because he had a little fender bender in his own driveway. We shook off the bad karma and checked into the Hilton on 6th and 55th by 1 pm.

Sunday involved much drinking with my old college roommate and a sorority sister. (yes, I was in a sorority – a really girly one at that). After the Heartland Brewery, we dropped off Lois at Grand Central, EE left to go home to her 4.5 month old and YJ and I heading out to another bar for football watching. (I definitely owe Lois for dragging her down there for a day then only sitting around and drinking. Sorry babe). I got home close to midnight, partook in a street vendor hotdog and climbed by drunk butt into the gigantic hotel bed.

Monday morning sucked. Nothing like sitting through a seminar on commercial real estate law with little sleep and a slight hangover. Lunchtime rocked as we “grabbed” a pizza at Angelo’s next to the Ed Sullivan theater. It was the best pizza EVER!  I hung out on my own Monday night, went to Bloomies,  Dylan’s Candy Bar, then the Oyster Bar for dinner where I sat next to Brian Setzer (he seemed like such a nice guy). We had the place almost entirely to ourselves. Then watched the worst football game that I have ever seen in my life. (Pittsburgh v. Miami)

Tuesday, back to the seminar. It was much better on day 2. For lunch, we hit a wonderful Japanese place, something Nippon and had the world’s best Miso soup, rainbow roll and this Sobe salad that was incredible.

We left the city at 3 pm and I was in my garage by 4:05 pm. I totally drive fast.

And what was I driving?!!?

Well. When you are stressed out and overwhelmed with work, money and life, what do you do?

Buy a car?

Sure.

Wednesday night (before Thanksgiving) on my way home from work, I stopped to test drive a new (used – 37k miles) car.

I test drove it. Then ended up going home with it.

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It’s a 2006 Honda Civic Hybrid

I sat down early in the week and did the math on how much my car was costing me. Here’s my old car. It got about 18 mpg highway and was in need of some work. Since I drive 300-400 miles per week, all highway, I was spending about $250 per month on gas. I figure that I will spend more than half of that now.

Plus, since I have no money, I just worked out the financing to roll everything into the loan. Probably not the best idea to create more debt for myself, but I feel like it was a smart decision in the long run. I felt a huge relief getting rid of my car (sorry Chad) and felt like I was being very grown up and practical. Hey, I would love to be talking about the new Volvo C70 I bought, but that’s my next car in 5 years maybe.

No bites on the condo yet. We’ve had 3 different people come look. We’ll probably do an open house on December 16th. My mother is having many more people come look at hers, so she should have more success in getting an offer soon.

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I’ve been out of touch for almost 2 weeks and am catching up with my friends. I feel terrible for M and K and hope that our words of support can get them through a rough time. Please take some time and send your thoughts their way. Thank you.

on the flip side

Hope everyone had a wonderful and safe Thanksgiving!

I’m leaving for NYC today for a seminar. Be back in a few days. Leaving Lois home with the boy.

Wahoo!

Maybe I’ll get a good night’s sleep while I’m gone. Yeah, right.

baby #2

I know that I am WAAAAYYY too busy at work to be blogging.

But…

No, I am not pregnant.

I just read an email on our yahoo group that our donor will be retired soon.

We currently have 3 vials left in storage of Andrew’s donor. I am not overly optimistic that I can get pregnant within 3 tries (yes, it will be my turn next. Lois is not going through that again)

I guess this means that we mommies may need to have a conversation about the proper course of action. hmmm.

Tickle Me

It’s been a busy weekend. I should currently be working on some work stuff, but I am tired from having a total non-work related weekend.

We headed up to my parents’ house on Friday night after work. We were up there by 9:30 pm, went to bed late and had my nephew Ben’s 1st birthday on Saturday.

Got back to our house Saturday night around 8 pm and I stayed home with the boy while Lois and Laura went to D’s 40th birthday bash.

Both Lois and I are fighting off cold symptoms (I feel like I just got over the last cold) and we haven’t had a busload of sleep in the past few nights.

I made the mistake of having a DD coffee Thursday night at about 9 pm after I attended a local GLBT chamber of commerce networking thing (very fun) since it was a long ride home. Needless to say, I forgot my rule about caffeine past 6 pm and was wide awake until 12:30 am. Between Andrew’s new sleeping shenanigans and our schedule, I am EXHAUSTED.

What is he up to?!?! Let’s just say that my whole proud mama thing about how great a sleeper he is has been totally shattered in just a week. He doesn’t “just go down” at night anymore, it’s a battle because he wants to be held. And for 3 nights in a row, due to various factors, we let him come into bed with us when he woke up at 4 am for a few nights, now he wants to come into bed with us at 4 am.

Last night, we tried to break him of this and from 5 am – 6:30 am, we tried to be tough. By 6:30, we were done with his crying and brought him into bed with us. Less than 5 seconds after he got into our bed, the crying stopped. The little s*^t has us completely under his little masterful thumb.

sigh.

As we are currently trying to map out how to possibly keep both of our families happy (ahem…not going to happen) for the Thanksgiving holiday, we hope everyone has a happy and safe week!

In the meantime, we TOTALLY wanted this for Andrew and we TOTALLY sucked grandpa (my father) into buying one for him for Christmas. We took it out and played with it this weekend but grandma and grandpa will wrap it up for the boy for Christmas. Like he’s going to know the difference – but it’s the point, right?!!? It is the most fun (and most obnoxious) toy ever. I highly recommend getting one for friends that you want to drive crazy!!

I borrowed someone else’s video from YouT*be to show how wonderful this thing is.

And now, for some photos of the boy from this weekend…

What?!?!? I’ll stand if I want to. It doesn’t matter that I can’t really stay up all that, well.
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Go Pats!!
Andrew is utilizing his clapping abilities as much as possible.
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Andrew notices Sam (my dog that really lives with my parents)
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Somebody LOVES peas!
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Okay, so I fully admit that I’ve been going a little crazy with the videos lately. I just uploaded like 15 of them onto YouT*be. Don’t worry, I’ll spare you most of them, but here’s just one. For now…

totally out of touch

This is a conversation I had recently with a co-worker. Remember the young guy? 

He is 27 years old. He currently lives at home, is single, has no children to support (and probably no student loans either) 

YG: Remember the client I met the other day? We talked cars. He even let me sit in his P*rsche. 

Me: You did mention him, yes. 

YG: well, he sent me an ad clipping for a 2003 P*rsche C*rrera for only $60k. I really want it. 

Me: If you trade in your Audi A6 superdooper ride, you could definitely swing it. 

YG: I can’t trade that in, I can’t drive the P*rsche all the time, it would be my weekend car.  

Me: Oh. A weekend car. Okay.  

YG: The only way I could swing it was to probably cash in some of my stuff. 

Me: Stuff? What is stuff? 

YG: You know, you have stuff.  

Me: I’m not quite sure what stuff you are talking about? A 401K plan? I do have one of those. It probably has enough money in it for a 1992 Suz*ki S*murai, not a P*rsche.  

YG: No, stuff. Like money that your parents set aside for you to use as a down payment on a house, or your wedding or for the start of your kids’ college fund, something like that.  

Me: You think my parents put money aside for me for when I grew up?  

YG: Yes, they had to of.  

Me: You think parents do that?  

YG: Yes. (totally perplexed that I am not on the same page as him) 

Me: My parents have no such thing for me. I’m sure they would have told me about it.  

YG: It’s for help with life stuff, you know. Probably not for buying a P*rsche as a second car. I’m sure they did.

Me: Hmmm. I can’t imagine why they didn’t bring this up to me when I was trying to buy a house.  

YG: Anyway, see ya later.  

Me: Yeah. I’m calling my mother right now.   

What weird reality am I living in?

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I called my mother and asked her where my trust fund money was.

I think she’s still laughing.

4 teeth total!

Here’s my smiling 9 month old boy. Can you see his new top 2 teeth?!?

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So, in honor of Lois’ 40th, I threw her a surprise party this weekend at a local restaurant. She was totally surprised and pretty pissed. I know she hates being the center of attention, hates being spoiled and hates surprises. oh well.  I pulled it off without a hitch and we had a wonderful large dinner with friends. It was perfect.

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Sulking Lois

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The kid area (sans Emma)

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Andrew is totally mobile now – other than walking. He is crawling EVERYWHERE and getting into everything he possibly can. He is not handling the “NO” thing very well when we try to keep him away from drawers, electrical cords, etc.

BTW – I totally lost my patience trying to get some of those child proof things onto the drawers. Maybe I’m not such a handy lesbian after all.

He started standing up (with the help of furniture) a few days ago and is now old hat at it. He’s not all that graceful about staying up and hasn’t quite mastered the sitting back down thing.  He also hasn’t quite figured out cruising yet or that you have to keep holding onto the furniture in order not to fall back down. He really wants to walk and gets mad when you sit him back down after walking around with him holding his hands.

Here’s the little rascal getting into the diaper changing basket. Notice all the toys that are not as much fun to play with than the lotion in the diaper basket.

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Confused about my Big 10 loyalties? Nope. Penn State is my #1 team! That is, when Rutgers is not playing. I really need to get this kid some Rutgers attire.

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My one year review is coming up soon, hence the lack of posting or blog commenting lately.

 I am slightly frustrated with what I have been doing and am trying to keep focused on a large project that’s making me nuts. At the same time, I am letting other people know that I am willing to do work for other partners. It’s hard when you work for the one really quirky guy and don’t get known out there among the power partners.

The solution to everything may be that I need to branch out, which will most likely involve working more hours. Which is fine if it at some point leads to a bigger paycheck. We shall see. In the meantime, my online time is going to be drastically reduced.

We had one person so far come to look at our place. No offer was made. I’m still trying to keep my hopes up.

9 mo checkup

First of all, I must do a huge HAPPY 40th BIRTHDAY to my wife. I’m only allowed to mention it once today, so here it is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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The check-up

Weight: 21.6 (he hasn’t really gained recently)

Length: 28 1/4 inches

No ear infections. Chest/lungs are clear. The 4 week cold is most likely more than one cold.

Had Hep B and flu shot today. Slightly cranky last night. ;-)

The doc did seem concerned when she asked if he was forming any real sounds, like “mama” or “baba” or something. He’s 9 months old. He babbles a lot. It sounds like nananananananana. I don’t think our kid is slow or anything. Hopefully.

Auntie Suz was worried that Andrew was eating too much. He’s not one of those kids that stops eating ever. The doc wasn’t concerned with the amount he’s been eating right now, so long as he’s still getting 20-24 oz of the bottle a day. Now that he’s had things like spaghetti, pork chops and mashed potatoes, getting him to take the bottle is a little tough. Maybe we can spike it with steak or something.

Last night, I went a little video crazy. Here’s a few. They are probably only funny and adorable to me, but I thought I’d share.

The first one, it’s tough to hear what’s going on with Aunt Laura working hard to feed K. in the background, but I totally swear that Andrew was throwing the ball on cue!

Some Andrew TV

Halloween ended up being a bust. Andrew had a slight fever and was totally glassy-eyed when Lois picked him up from her parents. So we hung out a little on the front stoop and went to bed early.

It was a busy weekend. Had a confirmation party in Long Island on Saturday night. Hit White Castle on the way home (total WW points in one evening approx. 120)

Sunday was “new member” stuff at church, birthday party for a 3 yr old then back to church for a chili dinner. We left the house at 9:45 am and didn’t get home until 7 pm. At least I was able to watch the last quarter of the Pats/Colts game! Which was the best time to turn it on ;-)

Andrew has his 9 month well visit this afternoon. He still has a cold. He’s got the constant runny nose thing and gets a little pissed off if we try to wipe it. His top 2 teeth are coming in. One is already through and working it’s way down (probably in line with the low grade fever on Wed). He’s moving everywhere and has pretty much pulled open, pulled down, shoved over, poked at every single thing he could possibly reach in the house. Things we never thought we needed to child proof, he’s discovered and attacked.

Our lives are busy. Work is dragging (I’ll take a picture of my office one of these days to show what it’s been like). We decided to list the condo with a realtor and it went on the market Friday. Not one bite over the weekend, but I am really trying to allow myself to not get stressed about it. We found another great house and I am trying to keep myself from falling in love with it.
And we have a wonderful friend staying with us (in our basement on a futon) since she really needs a place right of sanctity now. We love having her around (as does Andrew), we just wish we had better accommodations.

Someone is having a 40th birthday tomorrow (the non-blogging Momma), so I need to do something for that. Why not wait for the last minute.

Hope everyone is doing well. There are some newly pregnant ladies out there so please go give them some love. (The Cutest Little Babymakers and oneofhismoms. I am keeping up on everyone as much as I can. Even if I’m not always commenting!

Here’s a little multimedia experience of the past weekend. Hope you enjoy!

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A quick video of our quiet child.

 This one is long, but it shows the boy as we know him. Especially the end where he gets mad that he doesn’t have any more food.